i seem to be posting on a average of once a month.. well ill try to post more la.. but mus have proper things to say wad..so anyway let me first say that i am unable to see my tagboard..which explains why i have not replied my tags. in fact i cannot see anyone's tagboard..which doesnt explain why i dont tag.. cos i normally dun tag anyway.. lol.. rite..so let me jus give an overview of the last month.. my typical days works out like dis. wake up at 12noon... eat brunch.. check the newspaper for when A lvl results are going to be released...read other news..go use the com for the rest of the day..eat..bathe...blah blah..slack slack.. okay i guess u get the idea.. i also play soccer every sat..and on more days as well if possible.. oh ya i bought the nike orange shoe.. the new one which ronaldo and nani wear..of cos theirs is the high grace one with lace cover and all.. mine is jus the street soccer version.. although the orange looks kinda wierd..its a good shoe.. damn light.. and can reflect light onto ppls face.. so easier to get past them..lolz.. so anyway im moving into the last month of my hols before i go into the police force for NS. some ppl would be tired of hols by now.. they feel that it actually gets boring after a while..i used to think dat way.. when i had 3 months hols between my sec sch and JC... there was a point when i wanted sch to start.. but once it started..i couldnt take it..lol.. i feel that slacking at home.. beats going to sch.. anytime.. but of cos i need to go uni..so i can become rich..lol..so ill sacrifice for that..
speaking of going into the uni..some sources say results come out this fri.. but you know.. ppl have been saying "A lvl results come out this fri" for the past 3 weeks..lolz.. but the fact is the longer it takes.. the higher the chance that is actually will be "this fri".. and i certainly hope it is.. i jus cant stand the uncertainty. in my opinion its one of the worse feelings to have..whatever it is in regard to la..so yea.. anyway i should be blogging again this month..since ill blog once i get my results..so yea..
okay..ive been crapping for long enough..ive got my next theory up.. i know the past one was kinda controversial.. and a certain group of ppl might not like it..but its jus my opinion..ive made that clear from the beginning rite.. yea so here is the next one.. when i was writing it out i had the feeling that it was the most chiem one so far..but i dunno.. ill find out from ppl after they read it..
Theory Stereotypical Speculation & Assumptions
A stereotype is a certain prejudiced judgement or attitude towards a certain group or type of people. It is very common for people to have stereotypes about other people. Most of the time these stereotypes stem from personal experiences or beliefs that people have. These experiences and beliefs shape the thoughts of people to classify others according to certain labels. Prejudice is certainly not something that is openly encouraged in most communities. Therefore, we can safely say that it is not desirable for stereotypes to exist. A stereotype on its own does little harm. It can just remain as a mental picture some people have of others. However, it is raised to another level when coupled with speculation and assumption. You might argue that when people form stereotypes of other they are already speculating and assuming to a certain extent. While that could be true, what I am referring to is on a different level. Some people are capable of using stereotypes as a basis to form incorrect assumptions of others. Firstly you must realise that humans have a tendency to be strong headed about initial opinions that they form of others. Lets say Person A did something causing Person B to think that he isn’t a good person or that he is a bad influence. Since Person B has already formed this opinion, they will not readily change it unless they witness an explicit scenario, which serves to prove otherwise without a doubt. The extent of how explicit the scenario has to be depends on the personality of the person. If Person A is up against a strong willed person it will be much harder for him/her to prove himself/herself to be unlike what Person B thinks. Person B has therefore placed Person A under the category called ‘Bad Person’. There is already prejudice against that particular person. However, if the person has a naive personality it is likely that even minor things can cause them to change their opinions. Such people are not very common though. Due to the way humans are, most of the time the prejudice won’t just be left like that. There is no such thing as a stagnation of opinion, especially if you continue to encounter the other person on a day-to-day or week-to-week basis. Your opinion of people will either improve or retard. The basis for this improvement or retardation will almost always be based on speculation and assumption. Based on the stereotype that they have, people observe others and speculate about their intentions or assume that their actions mean something. The destructiveness of this behaviour can be compounded. The reason for this is that when people speculate or assume, the end opinion (Opinion C) that they come up with would not necessarily be true. If their end opinion (Opinion C) is something that is wrong, it will lead to even worse opinions as people would base their speculation and assumptions on the new opinion (Opinion C) that they formed. This can cause a downward spiralling effect and in the end what they think of others could be far off from the actual facts. This is a very general elaboration as it can apply to many different situations and people. Most people don’t really realise that they are doing this. They believe in their ability to discern what is going on. They feel that certain actions are sure signs of a person’s character. This is true for certain cases, but in most cases you should realise that you never really know the whole truth. There is always a degree of speculation and assumption with a stereotype as the basis. As long as this is the case your opinions are not reliable. If you deicide to continue sticking to them without finding out the whole truth, then you could be just fooling yourself into believing what u want to believe.
"love is patient...love is kind" this might be from the bible..but it applies elsewhere as well...
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`18 jan 89
`25 yrs old
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